Yesterday, we found ourselves at a parish we don't frequent. We'd overslept our normal mass time, and try as we might, couldn't get the troops organized for getting out the door until 5:30, so we went to Saint Peter's over in Olney for the six o'clock we're not desperate but we're getting close Sunday mass. The priest announced that since he had nothing scheduled after mass, he and another priest would hear confessions. Several of my children opted to take advantage of the opportunity.
After dinner (Pizza), my sixteen year old started his laundry. Before bed, he switched it over to the dryer.
The next morning, we found his laundry (wet) in a basket. Someone else had co-opted the machine for their own use. He started to curse his sister. I pointed out, he'd been in a state of grace, and I didn't want him to lose it. We took out her clothes and I restarted his. Half an hour later, he still felt frustrated. "I'd tried to do it on time." It was true, we'd be hard pressed to beat the bell. He'd missed the bus and this was supposed to be an easy morning for me, as two more children were home from school. But it wasn't. He started to work up a mad. I reminded him again.
Ten minutes later, dressed for school and ready to go, he announced to me it was okay that she switched out the laundry, he wasn't mad, and he thanked me for calming him down. "I don't want to be mad at my sister. Not at Christmas time."
"I'm guessing that's fraternal love speaking?"
He gave a shy smile. "Something like that. And I don't want her mad. She gives really really good presents."
Glad to know we're celebrating the season.
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