Sometimes serious, sometimes funny, always trying to be warmth and light, focuses on parenting, and the unique struggles of raising a large Catholic family in the modern age. Updates on Sunday, Tuesday and Friday...and sometimes more!
Sunday, September 30, 2018
One More!
After a dry spell, three in a row. Here's my latest over at the Register, Today, Tithe Your Time. I hope you like it and share it, and I'll get back to writing more...
Friday, September 28, 2018
Surprise...at the Register Again
I submitted this piece a while ago, but tinkered with it after the fact which frustrates me from a writing stand point. That being said, you can see the original over at the National Catholic Register...and please share if you liked it.
Pray Thy Will Be Done and Mean it.
Pray Thy Will Be Done and Mean it.
Thursday, September 27, 2018
Small Success Thursday
I realized I've been writing this thing since some time in 2009 I think...but it's Thursday so you get the link to Catholicmom.com and Small Success Thursday. Sometimes I think I'm just repeating myself, but other times, I remember, I'm writing these so that I can look back at some point (and I should) and know, there were blessings every day, every week, and they weren't just little things, they mattered.
They mattered because all of life is made up of those little moments, of little memories where you had the opportunity, and you didn't opt for the wrong thing. I usually remember this reality after I'm correcting life because I did the wrong thing.
This Thursday, I was running late. I get up at 5:45 and somehow, by 8:40, I'd fallen behind. Handing my son a piece of bread and a fist full of washed grapes, I felt like the ultimate slumming mom. I couldn't even toast the bread...no butter...just bread. Walking down the hill, I watched as my grateful (Grateful) son munched down on his not toast. We sat on the driveway waiting for the bus.
He took one of the grapes and made me say prayers. Grace over meals...over grapes...and bread. He offered me a grape. I tried to refuse. He wouldn't let me.
ate the grape and he patted my shoulder and gave me a smile. He'd given me one of his two loaves and five fishes...it was more than I deserved...and it filled my heart. He didn't want the food in particular, he wanted presence. I know this. I forget this. I forget it in mass. I forget it in the evening, when I'm tired or stressed. He gave me another grape. The bus came and he gave me a happy, "Bye Mom." and I walked back up the hill, munching on the gift of the second grape, grateful for a son who could see, his mother needed to be fed.
It made the rest of the day better, but I resolved, tomorrow, I'm making him a better breakfast as a thank you.
They mattered because all of life is made up of those little moments, of little memories where you had the opportunity, and you didn't opt for the wrong thing. I usually remember this reality after I'm correcting life because I did the wrong thing.
This Thursday, I was running late. I get up at 5:45 and somehow, by 8:40, I'd fallen behind. Handing my son a piece of bread and a fist full of washed grapes, I felt like the ultimate slumming mom. I couldn't even toast the bread...no butter...just bread. Walking down the hill, I watched as my grateful (Grateful) son munched down on his not toast. We sat on the driveway waiting for the bus.
He took one of the grapes and made me say prayers. Grace over meals...over grapes...and bread. He offered me a grape. I tried to refuse. He wouldn't let me.
ate the grape and he patted my shoulder and gave me a smile. He'd given me one of his two loaves and five fishes...it was more than I deserved...and it filled my heart. He didn't want the food in particular, he wanted presence. I know this. I forget this. I forget it in mass. I forget it in the evening, when I'm tired or stressed. He gave me another grape. The bus came and he gave me a happy, "Bye Mom." and I walked back up the hill, munching on the gift of the second grape, grateful for a son who could see, his mother needed to be fed.
It made the rest of the day better, but I resolved, tomorrow, I'm making him a better breakfast as a thank you.
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